Just a tip to deal with unrequited love,
assume that that guy is just below our level. And they don’t deserve us. And of course, we deserve someone way better than them.
you can also say that it’s his lost not to pick you / have you as his partner.
But the most important thing is, you gotta know that there is a hierarchical order among human in this world. And guys will usually pick a girl who is more stupid than them because they never want to lose (men’s ego). That means they will pick someone from lower level. That means, they’re not gonna pick a girl from upper level. And they don’t pick you, so they acknowledge that YOU ARE IN UPPER POSITION THAN HIM. And you gotta understand too that men don’t like women from higher level simply BECAUSE THEY FEEL INTIMIDATED BY THOSE WOMEN.
Men from lower level than us just don’t deserve us. And we don’t need men from lower position. We deserve someone way better.
Bear this in mind. And you will walk just fine as if there is nothing bad happened. True story !
This logic will also probably work if you are man and you’ve just been rejected by a woman.
I also got a tip to deal with boyfriend/girlfriend who cheats on you. But never tried it before. Lemme tell ya once it really works :)
I always hate the idea of changing boyfriend everytime. I always want to have a long lasting relationship with the guy I love, and end up in a happily ever after marriage. But guess what, I think I have a jinx that my relations never reach even 6 months. All my relations always end up before and at the 6th month. And I hate it. Like I said before, I hate the idea of changing and start over a relationship every time. For me, breaking up is really hurting, and I need much time to mend my broken heart before starting a new relation. When we start a new relations, more sacrifice must be done. Adaptability needed, and so on. It sucks. Moreover, I have to face a stigma that I’m not a good girl, I’m a bad girl. See?
I think that jinx shows that I’m not a strong girl, that strong enough to keep my relations ever lasting. But I guess, not really. I’ve read my old magazine and find out that the girl who usually change her boyfriend are strong because of three reasons:
1. they know they deserve the best
2. they don’t want to stuck in a irrational relation
3. they usually have strong character and ready to defend their right
I wanna add something more. The fact that we are so usual in starting over a new relations make us strong enough to stand up after we fail. Thats a good thing, though. At least my broken heart is not that hurtful compare to misery felt by African children who can’t even eat..hohoho..
But I still feel pathetic with my self..I need something to regain my confidence..Anyone wanna help?