December 2011
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Counting my blessings in 2011: Best of the best...
Breaking up ! It was really sad for a while, but it turned out to be the best decision I’ve ever made for the year, or maybe for the entire life;
Outstanding Students competition (along with its field-research/vacation trip in Kepulauan Seribu;
WorldMUN 2011 Singapore along with Universal Studio Singapore adventure !!!
my 21th Birthday party with besties;
26th SEAGAMES 2011...
Those punk kids deserve it
Call me evil, but I am superglad that those punk kids in Batam are being arrested by police.
I hate punk kids. I hate their cat calls to girls because what they do is a form of limitation of freedom of expression of women to wear any clothes that they want.
And I don’t like their smiling faces after being arrested as if the police action is only a cover or as if they happy for what they got...
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Open Invitation
Y’all are invited to:
MY THESIS DEFENSE !!!! Open to public for free !!!
When?
4 January 2011
10.00 AM Indonesia Western Time (GMT+7)
Where:
Faculty of Social and Political Science Universitas Indonesia
Gedung Nusantara II
Meeting Room Department of International Relations Studies
Be there or you’re gonna miss the biggest life-changing event of 2012 !!
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“Barangsiapa diperlakukan baik (oleh orang), hendaknya ia membalasnya. Apabila ia...”
– HR. Al-Bukhari dalam Al-Adab Al-Mufrad. (Lihat Shahih Al-Adab Al-Mufrad no. 157)
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Crush vs Idol
So…..I am now being crazy about someone, he is an athlete, a very HOT one. Not from Indonesia, from another country. And in my laptop, I have a folder of full photos of him. I’ve never did this before when I like a person, but I do it now.
I’ve been thinking about my feeling for him. Well, his friends support us to go for a date or worse, get married !! I also thought that...
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Happy mother's Day...
Let me remind you that while the idea of motherhood is holy, not all mothers in this world are good person.
So do not ever tell a kid to respect their mother or parents simply because “no matter what they are your parents” or “you wouldn’t had life to begin with if it wasn’t from them”.
Coz you have no idea whatsoever what that kid might’ve been through....
Are you sure you work hard enough??
Don’t be proud of yourself, or think you are awesome or work fucking hard if you haven’t felt what I’ve been through.
I pay my own college tuition fee. I do not rely on my parents’ money for that..I work fucking hard to get scholarship.
I fail many times in many things. I don’t get any achievements so easy. I work fucking hard to be top students.
I buy a very cool...
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Niatnya sekalian pamer gitu
My crush: what are you studying? what's your thesis about?
Me: I'm studying international relations. concentrating on transnational civil society studies. and my area of expertise is feminism. My thesis titled: shaping factors of the dynamics of women's rights enjoyment in Afghanistan (period 1973-2011)
My crush: Damn ! that's some kind of study !
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Il-feel
Okay gw tau elo ganteng ya,
dan emang gw sebenarnya juga gak pernah ada rasa sama lo (baca: udah ilfeel dluan)
Tapi plis ya, gw makin ilfeel kalo dideketin sama cowok yang udah jelas-jelas punya cewek.
Mungkin maksud lo gak gitu sih, tapi orang kan bisa aja mikir lain.
Whatever tapi yang jelas gw udah ilfeel dluan sama lo
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And finally :')
my-one-hell-of-99-pages-shaping-factor-of-the-dynamics-of-women’s-right-enjoyment-case-study-Afghanistan-1973-2011-feminism-thesis is FINISHED.
All I need now is approval from my advisor.
12-12-11 02.25 AM, I will never forget this very time
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Hey Uriel Yu-En French,
Y U so sweet like Colbie Caillat’s songs?
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7-Days Ethnicity Challenge #5: Do any of your...
Yes of course, since I am one of the most-fluent-in-English-family-member in both my nuclear and extended family (yeah my family don’t and can’t speak English).
My father’s family speak Indonesian and Javanese
My mother’s family whom I often meet speak Indonesian and Palembangnese.
I can speak Indonesian fluently. But I can’t speak Javanese coz my father never...
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7-Days Ethnicity Challenge #4: What languages can...
I can speak fluent Indonesian and English.
My mother language is Indonesian coz my family speak Indonesian
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7-Days Ethnicity Challenge #3: What is your...
Well, that’s tricky..You see, I like most food..But my favorite one..hmmm…
Let’s stick with rice (I cannot not have it), Nasi Uduk (Coconut Rice), and traditional fried chicken….
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“It’s better for us to focus our energy to people whom we love and make us...”
– Guess who? Me myself and I
suddenly get wisdom in a thesis-crisis-night
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Ten Reasons Why You Should Never Accept a Diamond... →
Okay..I love the idea….
But reason no.4 is beyond ridicule. If the miners exposed to HIV/AIDS, so what???? We can’t get infected by HIV/AIDS by diamond or a thing for God sake ! I guess the maker of this post should learn more about HIV/AIDS.
One thing for sure, am not going to accept any married proposal with diamond, now :)
bettafish-resistance:
1. You’ve Been...
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7-Days Ethnicity Challenge #2: Have you ever been...
Well, I’m only mixed of Indonesian and Chinese, so yes I am in Indonesia now, living and growing here..I’ve never been to China, though..
But if we talk about cities, that’s different matter. I have been to Palembang, but not Sekayu. I have been to Bandung (the city where my grandma grew up in). But, I neither been to Banyuwangi nor Madura island..Or maybe I had..My mom told me...
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“Mahasiswa bimbingan saya skripsinya A semua lho
(all my students got A for...”
– Dwi Ardhanariswari, my beloved thesis advisor
Don’t you just wanna die when you hear your thesis advisor talk like this?
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International Relations Quiz →
Shit ! I lost my IR knowledge already !
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“…Pikirkan untuk lulus, simpan dulu semua hal menganggu dan nikmati tiap...”
– Ika Malika, my personal therapist.
Yup, I don’t need to take care of all sucker in my life, at least for now. I just let it be whom they become until they fall badly by itself. The more they don’t realize their mistake, the more they will fall.
Just be cool. I’ll show everyone...
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It's how education in Indonesia so suck →
I am gonna make a post about education in Indonesia too. Watch and learn people
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Today is International Volunteer Day y'all !!
http://www.un.org/en/events/volunteerday/
http://www.volunteeringmatters.unv.org
“Volunteering empowers people to take an active part in development, to take responsibility for the needs of others, and to make an impact in their own lives. Volunteering often starts at home: but together, volunteers can change the world”
“On International Volunteer Day, we recognize the...
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7-Days Ethnicity Challenge #1: What are you made...
I am a proud mixture of 4 (well, 5) ethnics ! 4 traditional ethnics from Indonesia, and 1 Asian ethnic.
My mother is a mixture of Sundanese and Maduranese (from my granny) plus Palembangnese (from my grandpa). Actually it’s Sekayunese (Sekayu and Palembang are actually two cities in one province in Indonesia, South Sumatra) but my mother grew up in Palembang…
My father is a...
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The 30 Day Challenges of Tumblr!: 7 Day Ethnicity... →
Am soooo gonna do it for the next 7 days !
30daychallenges:
People should be proud of who they are. This challenge was created to celebrate all the different ethnicities that are represented on Tumblr.
Day 1 – What are you made up of? Do you know the exact percentages of each? (For example, I’m 50% Italian, 25% Irish, and 25% Polish.)
Day 2 – Have you ever been to any of the countries...
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Do not ever tell someone to respect her/his...
Because you wouldn’t have any idea about what that person have gone through at their family. If her/his dad rape her/his everyday, I don’t think that kind dad deserved a respect.
Please don’t tell me that “he deserves a forgiveness because no matter what, he is still their father” because I tell you what. If there is so called forgiveness for that action, then we...
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Human Cruelty
Have u heard the story about little Yueyue (2 yrs old) who was hit by a truck in downtown China but no one, not even out of eight people who saw her dying on the street, helped her until one scavenger helped her? That’s a big story (http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/evanosnos/2011/10/chinas-bystander-effect.html). And have u ever heard the story about a little boy who was tortured by his...
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“If you are good, you don’t need to work so hard to prove it to everyone....”
– True story